Rest Ministries, founded in 1997, is the largest Christian organization that serves the chronically ill. They recently did a survey and asked people to “List some of the programs or resources a church could offer to make it more inviting comfortable.” Below is a sampling of some of the 800+ responses, all of which could be done in 20 minutes or less.
1. Send encouragement emails. Something even short can let the person know you’re thinking of her.
2. Make sure the handicapped stalls in the restroom are functioning and clean. Add a little decoration to make it cheerful.
3. Add padded chairs or cushions to make church easier to sit through. Room for wheelchairs is always a need and don’t forget to include extra places for family members.
4. Have an open mind about a support group for the chronically ill like HopeKeepers. ‘It would make me feel very special that there was an understanding of people’s needs that are not always visible’ says one woman.
5. More disabled parking, even if they are temporary spots.
6. Inform the ushers that people arriving late may have difficulty walking or getting out of cars and may need some assistance.
7. Ask volunteers to call people with chronic illness just to check on them when they don’t make it to services.
8. One person shares, ‘When suppers are given, I may need help getting my meal, or at least understanding I cannot wait in a long line.
9. Be cautious when hugging. It may topple over or hurt a person.
10. Have a video tape of the service, not just a live web cast. Not all member’s computers work that well.
11. Check out the church doors. Can someone with an illness open them with ease? If not, install a mechanical button to push them open.
12. Many responders said some form of the following: ‘Stop telling me that if I truly believed and had faith I’d be healed by now. Please don’t go on and on about how good I look even though I know for a fact that I look terrible and miserable that day.’
13. Offer ways to serve within the church that can be performed regularly, but not on a set schedule so that I can still contribute, but there’s enough flexibility that I can do the job when I feel well enough to do so.
14. Provide sermon notes in case I can’t make it to the worship service and want to listen/take notes later.
15. Acknowledge National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week. Having some of those books in our church bookstore as a display would be a great outreach.
16. Just mention about chronic illness! Talk about it in sermons as one of the challenges many people face just like divorce or unemployment.
17. Have Christian volunteers from church that will clean house for small fee. Some have offered to clean my house, but I cannot accept charity yet, but neither can I afford to pay a regular house cleaning service.
18. Have the church help with some of the small costs of providing encouraging books and resources for the church library. The chronically ill often cannot afford all that they’d like to read and will check them out.
19. Remember how many caregivers are in the church, not just care-giving for their parents, but also for their spouses or ill children.
20. Have copies for free of the sermon on CD.
With minor adjustments and additions your church can be a warm and inviting place for the chronically ill, where they will feel their limitations or special needs have been taken into account. You may also discover some new volunteers who would love to offer their services to help with an area, such as making CDs.
Wait! Before you start baking another lasagna get Beyond Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend, Lisa Copen’s book with over 500 imaginative ways to encourage an ill friend. Makes a great gift for pastors, chaplains, deacons and anyone who wants to help someone who is hurting.



